Some bridges need to be burnt.
Today, we are going to sit back and talk about removing some unnecessary people from our lives. Shall we?
There are a few people in our life that no longer deserve to stay. It might be difficult to say ‘’Goodbye.’’, to them. But it has to come to an end.
Now, we all have our own ways of cutting off toxic relationships and getting over them. Most of us want things to end on a positive note. But that just cannot happen always. It will be ugly in most cases, but we have to get over them.
First of all, we need to know who to keep and who to let go. When you feel a relationship is giving out a lot of negative vibes and you are gasping for positive air, but you just can’t find it, you must realize you need to open up the door and leave the relationship.
Toxic people just need to be cleansed from your life. They are called toxic for a reason.
You just got to turn around and burn the bridge which connected them to you. It’s not easy, but you have to do it . And remember, never regret the decision you made. You wanted to get rid of them for a reason, right ? Some things just got to be shown the way to exit, after a certain point of time. Don’t worry about hurting them. You are just doing them good by showing them how they are harming not only others but themselves. You got to suck it in and do it for the betterment of both of you.
After you have removed them from your life, give yourself some time. It might hurt, but just give time for the wound to heal.
Trust me, once they are out of your life you will slowly feel positive changes. Things happen for a reason and so did this. Try hanging out with those who bring you happiness, or you can just spend some quality time with yourself and understand your needs. Speak to yourself. I know that sounds crazy, but try it. I know it helps me a lot! Ask yourself are ‘you’ treating everyone around you fair? Make sure you aren’t a toxic person yourself. At this point of time you need to be your own best friend. Love yourself more than anyone else in the world. No one understands the feelings you are going through more than your own heart. Go ahead, read a lighthearted book, hear some new songs, do anything and everything which can uplift your mood. Be happy.
Eventually, you will find someone who you can trust. Some of us find them early , some of us find them later. So, never make the horrible mistake of comparing your life to someone else’s . All of us are fighting our own battle and you should never think of yourself as ‘unlucky’ or ‘forever alone’. You will never be able to get over things with this attitude. Sooner or later your life will change for the better.
In the end, life cannot always be easy and in your control. It’s good to let it take its pace. This way you are able to identify yourself and the people around you. So, the next time you feel someone unnecessary is lingering about in your life, you know what to do.
Burn. Rejuvenate. Love yourself.
From the not so-