It’s time to talk about body acceptance.
We live in a world where everyone wants to be perfect and accepted by the society. When you realise that ‘fitting in’ will get you all the right attention that your human nature quenches for , you start your journey towards the scarred magical land. You get suffocated by all the pressure it showers on your roof. You see people flying by with their perfect life, and find yourself drowning in your chaotic sadness. You know what ? Stop right now and breathe. Let all the purity left around you colour your dark hole.
You don’t have to live your life sobbing because you are fat. You don’t have to live your life hurting yourself because you are skinny. You have to live life because there is no one like you. You need to understand that you are here cause you are special. Yes, it’s true you are not like your best friend or like your neighbour or like your sibling or like your favourite actor or like your favourite model. You know why ? Because you are you and you should feel really lucky to have been born as you !
Remember, even the Barbie dolls don’t advertise body shape. Their main message is ‘Be who you wanna be‘.
Fat and skinny are NOT the synonyms of ugly or bad or unacceptable. You should never be ashamed of the adjectives that make you, ‘you’. We are not born to live our life satisfying other people. We are here to love ourselves and make the most of our little life.
When you look at the mirror, you should see a person who knows his/her strength. You should see an individual who broke all the odds to be the way they are. You should see a person who shines happiness. You should see you,
Being you is not bad. Don’t wait for the world to accept you. You need to accept yourself first. Don’t wait for the world to love you. You need to love yourself first. Just don’t wait, okay?
All the hours you spend harming yourself because you are not the right size will not fetch you any happiness. Just grab yourself and move forward. In the end it doesn’t matter what size you were. All that matter is, if you lived your life. So, don’t sit back and watch people rejoice in your tears. It’s time to start a happy life !
For all those girls and boys out there, the next time someone has an opinion on what size you should be , remind them that you are happy and healthy, and that’s all that matters.
From the not so-